” Time can heal everything “….??

This place is rocking now! As I am spending more and more time chatting with people..am exploring new and new people, issues and their perspectives…I have got new good friends..and I am having really meaningful discussions, bebates and arguments with them…Here is one of them…Nitin, an engineer..helping me understand the castediscussions…I am really gladful to him…Thank you Nitin!

me: Hi…Nitin how r u??, wat u think abt my reserach study?

     : Good But wat do you think to do wid d results..??

me: see I just want to know how the caste identites are forming on internet too

    : Hmmm

me: my study will be some hard data for argiung this ..wat u think abt caste on orkut…do u think?..Orkut is becoming platform to discuss caste realted issues??

    : Yeah,many ppl are arguing about tis on orkut n other social networking sites .Hatred is growing amongst them

me: ohhh..i would really want to knw some of their argument..

      :okay..Do u want me to tell bout tat nw..??

me: any link or like that as u are comfortable..

     : I can give u abstract bout tis and can fwd u d links aswell,, but I need some time

Like a day or two

me: how is experience at orkut caste communities?

      : Bad…Relli bad…

me: means….

      : Hatred is growing lyk anything over thr… Ppl go mad on these topics. Its like ego games…

me: i knw I can see that here

      i m reading this all discussions from last 3-4 months

     :Hw come u r interested in this..??

     : I got to go nw… ll catchya l8r…Tc.. Bye

me: ok bye

And here Nitin sends this email….this is fantastic.

Hey dear, 

Here are few interesting links which might help you wid ur research.  

http://www.orkut.co.in/Main#CommMsgs?cmm=13095129&tid=5394042675454049221

here you can see ppl who say they lost something bcoz of caste system[ppl frm both upper n lower caste] Few losing seats in colleges n few others their dream to marry someone n so on.. 

http://www.orkut.co.in/Main#CommMsgs?cmm=13095129&tid=2564766164984941548&na=1&nst=1

here you can see hw madhusudhan in trying to distinguish religion and castesystem… the points are worth giving a thought. 

http://www.orkut.co.in/Main#CommMsgs?cmm=13095129&tid=5380140192731536928&na=1&nst=1

In d above link you can see ppl discussing bout banning the caste related communities,, reporting them etc etc..

  http://www.orkut.co.in/Main#CommMsgs?cmm=13095129&tid=5381115159313386339

some stats on dominant castes

 http://www.orkut.co.in/Main#CommMsgs?cmm=13095129&tid=5345844655477257639

can be a case study : Subramania Bharathi (Tamil: சுப்பிரமணிய பாரதி) a famous tamil poet cum freedom fighter fought against the caste system in Hindu society.

 http://www.orkut.co.in/Main#CommMsgs?cmm=13095129&tid=5299887470313272705

about some political factors creating nuisance to increase troubles

  http://www.orkut.co.in/Main#CommMsgs?cmm=13095129&tid=5323347908927904545

I liked karthik’s idea of educating people about the unpleasant affects of caste system.

 http://www.reservationfacts.blogspot.com/

chek tis out…

 http://www.orkut.co.in/Main#CommMsgs?cmm=1123196&tid=2535528430635452658

Proof of people creating havoc n hatredness in such communities.

 http://www.orkut.co.in/Main#CommMsgs?cmm=1123196&tid=2499249434595727451&na=1&nst=1

hatredness crossing its limits.. Do we need this..??

 I can send you many more links of various caste communities where you can find nothing but all cheap crap.

 One thing I have to say is ” The more you discuss about caste system, the more you are feeding it “

 The problem is not wid the communities,, its the problem wid ppl who are visiting these pages and get aggravated on certain topics… Can’t they just ignore things and stop visiting those pages..??  I know it wont solve the crisis but at least doesn’t add up to the problems. 

Anything being discussed in these forums definitely hurts someone’s beliefs which they were following since their childhood thus hurting their ego and aggravating them… No one will be ready to take it and wont like unexpected changes in their lives.

 The only solution to it is ignoring the fights caused by these issues and educating children about the ill effects of the caste system which shud be framed very cautiously so that it wont hurt anyone’s feeling.

” Time can heal everything “

 I dont know whether the above links helped you or not. Wish you success in your research.

If you need anything pls do ask me.

 Regards,

 Nitin Bali

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